Dealing with elders who are spoiling relationships

When you have to deal with so called "elders" who are not exposed to life and are suggesting and passing comments based on there narrow view of life.

These in infections of society harm relationships very badly with their prejudged mindset and reluctance to accept positiveness in a environment which was earlier negative.

They do not know understand the concept that people change and yes , a bad person can be good . Good and bad are only perspectives and not a person's nature.

If such uneducated elders had understood the last sentence in previous paragraph. Indian youth and society would have been much more greener and lesser victims who had to go through and bare such ridiculous elders.

It's a pain to tolerate accusations and accept mistakes which are not done in first place.

Facing accusations

When you face a situation or hear vague comment contradictory to your intent or instinct. What do you do?

Errupt with anger and shout or think patiently and act wisely?

99% of us choose to errupt in the heat of the moment. But that's not the need of the hour.

Do not increase the value of the passer by's comment by reacting to it.

Instead respond. In Hindu faith it is said that Peace, wealth and intelligence are under God's direct influence. If you do not possess these then God doesn't approve your case.

Hence show some patience, act with integrity instead of shouting. You know what you are and what you are capable of. Some laid back person passing a comment on your core personality doesn't degrade or decrease your capabilities 8j any manner.

Choose to ignore and add comment to checklist . It is not that you do not want to act on that but you are simply bound by so many things that you do not have enough time to spare on such vague comments.