Managing the hate: How to not hate someone?

I hate that person for my life!

How often you would have told the above sentence to yourself? question yourself.

We might have gone through lot of situations which might have turned your opinion against the person you hate. But think about it again. Does it really warrant to carry the feeling of disgust throughout your life?

Weigh each scenario which made you that person carefully based on what was the intent of that person when that incident occurred?

Put yourself in that person's shoes and understand his perspective.

By now your hatred should have reduced to some extent.

Lets continue...

Now every time you talk about that person within yourself take a small pause and see if it worth giving your mindspace and time for this loose talk which is not constructive in anyway.

Hatred should have reduced to manageable levels by now...

lets continue...

Take a slow and continues breath of the above methods did not bring you out of that mindset at that moment. Concentrate on your breath for say 2 mins.

Lastly move away from your current location. Take a walk.

By now a smile should have formed in your face!

Wear that smile always. Never lose it!

Keep smiling. Stay healthy. Live long.

Good morning guys.

How to solve difficulties in life?

Every moment in life we are challenged for our existence. Challenged is posed in the form of tiny battles every moment.

We term these tiny battles as difficulties, sorrows displeasure, unhappiness etc

The solution:

Smile - Prime medicine for all possible diseases, sorrows, difficulties, uneasiness, anxiety, anger, displeasure

Yes a smile on your face is proved to scientifically as well to produce comforting chemicals within brain which allows constructive thinking.

Smile is the only thing which enhances mood of not only self but of all the people around us.

Smile sends a rite note/signal to all the people you work with and makes you more approachable there by making you more likelier to win in life.

Keep smiling guys!!

Good night.

Movie review: Jagga jasoos

In an attempt to move from the traditional romance and family drama the makers of 'Jagga Jasoos' have come up with a very beautiful narrative.

Its a screenplay worth watching. The story is narrated using a classroom environment in a comic book style. As and when the teacher narrated various chapters the movie takes the audience along.

The lead character is in search for lost father. And Ranbir Kapoor is roped in as detective to assist on finding the missing father.

Overall the movie can be rated 4/5 and a worthy family entertainer!

Good night guys..

Opinion: Ravi Shashtri becoming Indian team coach

Firm decision maker, Good control, Selfish, performance squeezer

In simple words Ravi Shashtri can be discribed as above. I would attribute all the success Indian team had when he was the team manager/director. Instead it should be noted that Virat Kohli and the senior folks worked hard to strategise and plan for each situation during that time frame.

The coach selection - 1st episode

In the initial edition after a long gap where in India did not have a full time coach and the BCCI was in turmoil the coach selection process went into lot of controversies. Ganguly and Ravi Shashtri spat over how the interview itself was conducted etc. Which ended with the CAC (Cricket Advisory Committee) recruiting Anil Kumble as a full time coach during that point in time. Also Ravi quit the team mentoring role.

Once It was "displayed" or "showcased" that there was not everything going rite between Virat Kohli and Anil Kumble the great politics of Indian flower reached the international media.

All of a sudden Virat started complaining about the bossy attitude of Kumble during team selection an strategies of the team are concerned. In the end it's always the captain who wins in the Insian cricket and hence Anil Kumble on whom The Indian cricket team had much of its success in recent times had to quit voluntarily so that the captain in not shown in bad light to the world.

Even while selecting the new coach norms where broken and Ravi's candidature was outrageous considered to put him on the front line and hence appoint as tw coach of Indian team. Hopefully Indian team's success continues the way it is now and wishing Ravi Shashtri all the best in his new role.