12 ways to let things go

We are bound to carry the burden of feeling after every incident.
its very difficult to not thinking something that is not related to you. Even though an incident doesn't affect us we still ponder on it and
make life hell for ourselves.
Found the following beautiful thought on maturity.
*What is maturity? - by Adi Shankara*
1. Maturity is *when you stop trying to change others, ...instead focus on changing yourself.*
2. Maturity is when you
*accept people as they are.*
3. Maturity is when you
*understand everyone is right in their own perspective.*
4. Maturity is when you
*learn to "let go".*
5. Maturity is when you are
able to *drop "expectations" from a relationship and give for the sake of giving.*
6. Maturity is when you
*understand whatever you do, you do for your own peace.*
7. Maturity is when you *stop proving to the world, how intelligent you are.*
8. Maturity is when you *don't seek approval from others.*
9. Maturity is when you *stop comparing with others.*
10. Maturity is when you *are at peace with yourself.*
11. Maturity is when you *are able to differentiate between "need" and "want" and are able to let go of your wants.*
*& last but most meaningful !*
12. You gain Maturity when you *stop attaching "happiness" to material things !!*

Even if half of the above are followed a peaceful and prosperous life awaits you.
seeyeah