How to live a peaceful married life. Yes its possible

Yes, guys the header of this article seems very impossible but its possible.

Often the first couple of years in an arranged marriage looks relatively good enough and justifies your choice and decision. But post 24 months is whats marks the beginning of a never ending testing phase and you will be crucified in all aspects of life.

Some of the common reasons why both the husband and wife think they made a wrong choice for life partner.

1. Your ambitions/life goals are different. Hence priorities change and hence your basic daily routines would clash.
• Key: Ambitions/Life goals are things which have to be re-looked at based on phases in life. If you are single/bachelor then you would set ambitions basis your circumstances (I would call you are learning and not fully matured at this point). When circumstances change your would not realize to blend your partner's goals as well. Question yourself on this? How often you asked her/him what he wants to be in life and what are his/her interests in life.
2. You realized your mental frequency do not match. This is one of common reasoning I have heard. 
• Yes, you would need to re-tune your mind to hear him/her just life normal radio else both do not listen each other.
3. Age of getting into a commitment or getting married. 27 years, I would say is ideal given that you would have seen a bit of money flow in you life and you would have heard/seen few life lessons that help you carve a partner picture and hence you can make a informed choice while choosing your life partner.
4. Blending your needs with that of hers/his. You would need to be ready to make at-least 10% compromise on all the stuff you intend to do in life. From the very granular to the major decisions. This way each you respect one another and this helps create a strong bond overtime. Which would result in the minus 10% to become plus 10%.

Hope some of these helps.

Have a good Sunday whichever part of the world you are in!

Do you need money? And more of it.

Each and every moment you are breathing your struggle is to keep your stomach filled but that has changed significantly and we struggle to satisfy our luxury.

Earlier it was one man working in the family and the family is served for living.

Later it turned out that just serving is not enough we need to have own home new clothes etc.

Now apart from the basic and semi luxury commitments above we are hunger or having top quality entertainment. Best in class beauty accessories. And to top it all the envy of other family members when a close relative or neighbor is enhancing his or her life. That adds on to the pressure on lead male in the family to match his status to the so called social status of the neighbor and so on. This pressure comes in the form of..... You guessed it..!

He has to do two jobs!

I will stop here and pray mankind stops here and returns to normalcy ditching these kind of trends and be for humble aspiring their needs rather greeds

Have a happy weekend. What others think of you is non of your business.

Financial pressure in life

When you are completely debt ridden you like life is come to a stand still and attempt to do something which might hurt yourself.

Mind goes to a state where you feel things are unmanageable and lose is imminent. But if you hold onto your nerve and give it sometime . The time itself will heal all the hurdles you are facing now.

Yes you are criticising God . You hate orthodox methods. You feel like dying. You want to commit Suicide etc. But remember this is moment is time you are in this state.

You are bound to come out of this and drink lots of patience drink . Think slowly. Do not take any adverse decisions.

Good night guys...

Life is a difficult game

When you glance at your past and even though not fair compare against your curremt circumstances, it looks a very losing game that we r playing.

But the beauty of life is you know your winning only when you win. Not a second before the winning moment you know of this. It looks like you are in a constant battle and that is not always advantage yourself.

I would like to give one piece of advise to all of those who wants to call it a day and quit life. You are having a golden game of opportunity given to you by the supreme power. Make use of it, enjoy the difficult portions of it instead of cursing it. Live life every moment to the fullest. Life is not complete when you have the best luxury and satisfaction but when you see more colors that it has to offer in terms of emotions, cycled through the entire lifecycle of rich-poor-rich. Being rich is having satisfied mind with satisfied people around you.

Choices of elderly people spoiling younger

Good morning guys! Today I am talking about how younger generation gets spoiled or exploited due to whims and fancies of so called elderly people.

More often than not just because of this elderly person in the family who is the decision maker manor aspirations and hence the path of life is destroyed for the young ones in the family.

Unless or until the elderly person is broad minded and open to ideas the young ones in the family are destined to be destroyed in the process of obeying the instructions from the 'most matured' person in the family.

If the young one defies the order his life is manually spoiled else if e obeys instructions and implements them in life he is automatically spoiled.

My suggestion to the younger generation is you are in the digital age and you have access to lot more information than your parents had. Listen to them and follow their advise based on your consensus only if you feel it is rite else question the instruction and follow your own path.

Do not be a sheep herd. Where just because some people are following the elderly people you have to. No never do that!

Have a good Sunday!