5 reasons for bad relationships

Number One: You do not have patience until you process the information that you just saw. Misunderstood it and went after your partner.
Always try to read between lines, see the unseen. Only then you can lead a happy and successful life.
Number two: do not react to any situation instantaneously. Remember words and actions are irreversible. That does not mean you should treat your relationship with your partner as a business, it only means that weigh the situation and act responsibly.
Number three: often the words heard and there actual meanings would be completely different hence when you hear any harsh or painful words do not retaliate instead give yourself sometime to sink the entire situation in and reanalyse why your partner might have told it to you. You will find that in most cases it is either out of love or only for your good in future.

Number four: Kids are the best example for a real world and they stay in the moment always. Elders are the best example of perception. Because we always live in a perceived world and never accept things as is creating complications within ourselves plus unbalancing the mood surrounding us.

Number five: Supporting your partner in difficult times despite a push back is the golden quality needed for the current generation.
When differences occur between us we tend to push the perceived theory and argue at a higher note while the reality is more often than not completely different.
Happy relationships!!
seeyeah

Where do I get peace of mind?

I have been going through interesting websites which basically remind us to spend a moment for ourselves.
Most importantly ring peace into the chaotic mind.

Below site ask you to spend only two minutes closing your eyes doing nothing and only listening to the sound of waves. So soothing and feels so much more better after the experience. I recommend to to try this website!!:
http://www.donothingfor2minutes.com/

The second website talks about doing he non routine stuff. If you observe carefully out everyday routine contains so many things which basically are done just to please someone else or none of us. These routines are done like a job, sort of non paying jobs we have assigned or taken up for ourselves for rest of life.
some examples include like someone's comment. Retweet things which are seriously ridiculous. Make your personal life space public by tweeting each ad every thing in your life. Post all the posts including how you dress up and how you clean your teeth on various social networking websites..
Take some time out and do something that actually helps you feel fresh. Making you feel that THIS MOMENT I owned for the first time since went public via so called social spaces online. Check the below site
http://www.kerismith.com/popular-posts/100-ideas/

Time versus money

Time is a precious jewellery which most of us do not value. The important thing to note is time should be valued even if it is not yours.
Now when we add money into this discussion, it's often seen that money takes a higher priority.
Its a very interesting discussion.

Money is simply overestimated and given too much of attention to obtain anything in life.

However, Money cannot buy anything and everything. Your true happiness cannot be valued with money. Time on the other hand is plot on which a play called 'LIFE' is enacted and doesn't receive the deserved respect.

A moment cherished is a moment lived. You live life only when you smile. All the other moments are equivalent to dead time you spent or wasted. So when you make the other person happy or make him smile out of his heart you actually helped him to be alive for that moment.

Tips for eternal happiness

Before I start let me first give an overview of the primary cause of uncomfortable feelings we experience.

When I say uncomfortable feelings it includes - Anger, sadness, pain, grief, dullness, boring, jealous, wicked, revenge etc. Some of the positive and comfortable feelings would be - Smile, pleasant, laugh, taking care, responsible, learning and teaching, happy-mind etc

Now how to eliminate the negative and uncomfortable feelings once for all with a most comfortable and short method which yields best results for small investment of time. I would suggest the following methods which I myself follow to gain the ultimate tool called - 'SELFLESSNESS'.

Selflessness makes you feel lighter and eternal. It helps you realize the purpose of YOU in this world. Trust me by following any of the below methods you would feel much relieved and find yourself happier than before.

Method 1: 

Repeated chant of religious text: There is a reason for these texts to be preserved and trusted by elders. Thus passing them to us and urging us to chant them. These chants basically build a positive fort around you when you continuously chant them for at-least an hour everyday for 10-180 days.

Greater the number of days greater the results. In this method the positiveness surrounding you will influence the other person with whom you would communicate with regardless of the distance. His thoughts and opinion along with the actions of his/her towards you would be impacted in a positive way.

Now this will eliminate slowly but surely all the caused for your worries. Making you build a strong and trust-able personality among the people you get along on a daily basis. I chant - Sri Vishnu sahasranama for this method. This is a set of 1000 names of lord Vishnu and is said to be the only mantra in Hindu religious text to have its effect even in this era.

Link to the text:  Sri Vishnu Sahasranama

Method 2:

Performing EKADASHI. As a practice you stay away from food for a day every 15 days once. That is twice a month. You would feel the selflessness imbibed in you.

Hunger is the ultimate urge stronger than Sex and Money which humans cannot control. By restricting yourself to have food for a day you gain supreme control on your mind and its waving thoughts.

This will help you in gaining selflessness and making rite decisions are rite moments in life. Getting used the cycle of no food twice a month will yield such great results that you would learn how to deal with anger, unhappiness, attraction towards filthy stuff etc in life.

What is rage or revenge

Revenge is when some spits at you:
Think for the best answer to that. Work on your answer day and night and come out of that challenge.
Revenge is:
If you are slapped, work tooth and nail achieve the success and throw a spitting answer.

TAKE THAT YOU INHUMAN ANIMAL

Revenge is: when your dress is torn and you are pushed to fall down wake up and fight hard.

Fight to win in a way where people who spit, tore and slapped you receive a befitting reply in there life which is slaps them mentally much harder than physically.

Revenge is: keeping quiet when you are hurt. JUST KEEP QUIET. calm down yourself, focus and persist towards the goal which slaps and tears there mind and thoughts in a way that regret there entire life for the act they committed on you.
Revenge is: not thinking about the incident or act or words you heard experienced and mourning on it.
Revenge is: act hard and slow. Be continuous in your effort.
Revenge is: being persistent, focused and undeterred until achieve it.
Revenge is: not sitting idle-alone and biting nails.
Revenge is: not abandoning the person who hurt you. Instead stay or be normal.

If you do not like to be normal with that person, do not interact with that animal, chill and focus on what you need to do.

seeyeah!