Choices of elderly people spoiling younger

Good morning guys! Today I am talking about how younger generation gets spoiled or exploited due to whims and fancies of so called elderly people.

More often than not just because of this elderly person in the family who is the decision maker manor aspirations and hence the path of life is destroyed for the young ones in the family.

Unless or until the elderly person is broad minded and open to ideas the young ones in the family are destined to be destroyed in the process of obeying the instructions from the 'most matured' person in the family.

If the young one defies the order his life is manually spoiled else if e obeys instructions and implements them in life he is automatically spoiled.

My suggestion to the younger generation is you are in the digital age and you have access to lot more information than your parents had. Listen to them and follow their advise based on your consensus only if you feel it is rite else question the instruction and follow your own path.

Do not be a sheep herd. Where just because some people are following the elderly people you have to. No never do that!

Have a good Sunday!

Chaos in life!

What is chaos?

Being not able to think or think straight forward or lack of thoughts even with force.

What should I do to come out of this chaotic situation?

Simple. Stop trying to think and a blank mind is not a state of helplessness, it's just that you achieved bit of calmness in this ever busy world.

Since we are not used to a calm mind we feel it's chaos. In actuality it's for your own good.

Henxe chill and enjoy this calmness in life.

Good day!

State of mind: When in difficulty and depression

What happens when you are hit with worst patch of difficulty in life with regards to funds and also in depression due to past events in life?

This is state of mind is cruel oneself and leads to failure more often. We need to focus on the task and pray for some luck while not letting our hardwork ease.

Yes. What if true situation is 100% unsolvable? In this case the first thing you need to remember is nothing is unsolvable, there is a key for every lock. It's only matter of time before you find it. Patience helps you win and trust helps you focussed.

Wear a smile and put 1000% effort and you will come out successful. In life what goes around comes around as well. Always wish good for others. Help others and do not think ill of others. You simply do not know the character or personality of the other person.

Have a great week ahead guys!!

Good morning.

Financial pressure in life

When you are completely debt ridden you like life is come to a stand still and attempt to do something which might hurt yourself.

Mind goes to a state where you feel things are unmanageable and lose is imminent. But if you hold onto your nerve and give it sometime . The time itself will heal all the hurdles you are facing now.

Yes you are criticising God . You hate orthodox methods. You feel like dying. You want to commit Suicide etc. But remember this is moment is time you are in this state.

You are bound to come out of this and drink lots of patience drink . Think slowly. Do not take any adverse decisions.

Good night guys...

Some tips for how to be happy in life.

Ever wonder the percentage of time you spend repenting or worrying about something in life?

Its over 90% of our we spend on useless thoughts or destructive thoughts or worried thoughts. We spend very little time happily.

Most important quality or practice to be happy or to stay in happy state is "selflessness and gratitude". If you are able to master these two qualities, you have half won the battle with your mind.

Stop wearing the watch! YES I am serious. If you carefully observe half of your worries are about meeting a deadline or reaching somewhere ontime etc. If you are able to cut down on the repeated time tracking you will achieve you goal much earlier and on time even without a clock on you hand.

I have read this line somewhere:

What others think about you is non of your business

This is a golden to be printed on your mind.

What he or she thinks doesn't matter as long as you know you are on correct path. Do not mistake the above sentence and decide to not take advice from others. Taking help or advice is different from guessing opinion for others about you.

Stay happy! Keep chilling! Always smile.

Have a good day.

Some tips for how to be happy in life.

Ever wonder the percentage of time you spend repenting or worrying about something in life?

Its over 90% of our we spend on useless thoughts or destructive thoughts or worried thoughts. We spend very little time happily.

Most important quality or practice to be happy or to stay in happy state is "selflessness and gratitude". If you are able to master these two qualities, you have half won the battle with your mind.

Stop wearing the watch! YES I am serious. If you carefully observe half of your worries are about meeting a deadline or reaching somewhere ontime etc. If you are able to cut down on the repeated time tracking you will achieve you goal much earlier and on time even without a clock on you hand.

I have read this line somewhere:

What others think about you is non of your business

This is a golden to be printed on your mind.

What he or she thinks doesn't matter as long as you know you are on correct path. Do not mistake the above sentence and decide to not take advice from others. Taking help or advice is different from guessing opinion for others about you.

Stay happy! Keep chilling! Always smile.

Have a good day.

Selflessness: How to smile?

When you life selflessly you are granted with abundant satisfaction, self respect and this will lead to inner happiness for each individual who follow principles of selflessness.

Selflessness is a powerful tool which will guard you and wipe your tears along with the person for whom you are selfless

Greed makes a person wanting more in life and never attain satisfaction.

Selflessness is not only about caring for someone or helping someone. It also means being to sacrifice something you love for the benefit of the person who is in much more need of it than you.

The act of just holding on to your anger when you are about to blast is also a sign of you moving towards selfless. Patience, love & Care defines selflessness and leads to smile in life.

Keep calm! Stay patient!!
Smile will come your way...

Good night guys!

Patience: How to succeed in life?

When you are sitting idle and thinking about how God had made things work on earth.

His brilliant skills of interconnecting each incident with reason might baffled you. And... Also would have a raised a question within you that...

How do I succeed in life?

why does success seem a distant object always?

Do not worry these kind of thoughts run in my mind as well. But then one tool rather treasure which I was able to find, Polish and nurture was Patience. Once you get hold of this silent weapon you are firmly on drivers seat to taste success in life.

How do you know you have enough patience to reap benefits of your hardwork?

You realise that you enough patience, when you are not thinking of success anymore and more concentrated on enjoying the current moment!

Thats the yardstick which will tell you that you are there to live on Earth for long..

Have a great evening guys!!

Mental pressure: What does mental pressure feel like?

Moments when you are pushed to corner of a room with thousand voices shouting at you to rip your nerves apart.

Thats mental pressure in part for you. It is a moment when your heart tells your brain about your helplessness to save yourself out of the current pathetic situation.

This kind of mental pressure leads to some of extreme thoughts of mind. It compels you to take extreme steps. That too without any room to think constructively.

Pause yourself for second. This moment is not the end of life. This is a solvable moment.

Think this his way and move on. Pressure will heal only if it's allowed to for some peaceful moments

Good night guys!

Managing the hate: How to not hate someone?

I hate that person for my life!

How often you would have told the above sentence to yourself? question yourself.

We might have gone through lot of situations which might have turned your opinion against the person you hate. But think about it again. Does it really warrant to carry the feeling of disgust throughout your life?

Weigh each scenario which made you that person carefully based on what was the intent of that person when that incident occurred?

Put yourself in that person's shoes and understand his perspective.

By now your hatred should have reduced to some extent.

Lets continue...

Now every time you talk about that person within yourself take a small pause and see if it worth giving your mindspace and time for this loose talk which is not constructive in anyway.

Hatred should have reduced to manageable levels by now...

lets continue...

Take a slow and continues breath of the above methods did not bring you out of that mindset at that moment. Concentrate on your breath for say 2 mins.

Lastly move away from your current location. Take a walk.

By now a smile should have formed in your face!

Wear that smile always. Never lose it!

Keep smiling. Stay healthy. Live long.

Good morning guys.

How to solve difficulties in life?

Every moment in life we are challenged for our existence. Challenged is posed in the form of tiny battles every moment.

We term these tiny battles as difficulties, sorrows displeasure, unhappiness etc

The solution:

Smile - Prime medicine for all possible diseases, sorrows, difficulties, uneasiness, anxiety, anger, displeasure

Yes a smile on your face is proved to scientifically as well to produce comforting chemicals within brain which allows constructive thinking.

Smile is the only thing which enhances mood of not only self but of all the people around us.

Smile sends a rite note/signal to all the people you work with and makes you more approachable there by making you more likelier to win in life.

Keep smiling guys!!

Good night.

Karnataka SSLC supplementary results announced: July 2017

http://karresults.nic.in/indexsslcsup2017.asp

Karnataka SSLC supplementary results announced today. Above is the link to access the result page. Enter your registration number and click on print to take out a copy of results sheet. All the best!!!

Movie review: Jagga jasoos

In an attempt to move from the traditional romance and family drama the makers of 'Jagga Jasoos' have come up with a very beautiful narrative.

Its a screenplay worth watching. The story is narrated using a classroom environment in a comic book style. As and when the teacher narrated various chapters the movie takes the audience along.

The lead character is in search for lost father. And Ranbir Kapoor is roped in as detective to assist on finding the missing father.

Overall the movie can be rated 4/5 and a worthy family entertainer!

Good night guys..

Opinion: Ravi Shashtri becoming Indian team coach

Firm decision maker, Good control, Selfish, performance squeezer

In simple words Ravi Shashtri can be discribed as above. I would attribute all the success Indian team had when he was the team manager/director. Instead it should be noted that Virat Kohli and the senior folks worked hard to strategise and plan for each situation during that time frame.

The coach selection - 1st episode

In the initial edition after a long gap where in India did not have a full time coach and the BCCI was in turmoil the coach selection process went into lot of controversies. Ganguly and Ravi Shashtri spat over how the interview itself was conducted etc. Which ended with the CAC (Cricket Advisory Committee) recruiting Anil Kumble as a full time coach during that point in time. Also Ravi quit the team mentoring role.

Once It was "displayed" or "showcased" that there was not everything going rite between Virat Kohli and Anil Kumble the great politics of Indian flower reached the international media.

All of a sudden Virat started complaining about the bossy attitude of Kumble during team selection an strategies of the team are concerned. In the end it's always the captain who wins in the Insian cricket and hence Anil Kumble on whom The Indian cricket team had much of its success in recent times had to quit voluntarily so that the captain in not shown in bad light to the world.

Even while selecting the new coach norms where broken and Ravi's candidature was outrageous considered to put him on the front line and hence appoint as tw coach of Indian team. Hopefully Indian team's success continues the way it is now and wishing Ravi Shashtri all the best in his new role.

India - China - Border Standoff - Whats at stake for each side?

Significance of the area in dispute - what's at stake for India:

You might have read about the ongoing the India China Border Standoff near the Doko la in Sikkim since over a month. This region is strategically important for India as it overlooks the "chickens area neck" which connects the Eastern states with the Indian Mainland. If China is able to annex the Doko la region it would be that China can have a hawk of Indian troop movements and civilian movements as well.

Even though the region under dispute is not earmarked as Indian territory it is still an area o contention as the countries, India, China and Bhutan have a treaty signed to maintain status quo in the area without altering its geographical texture.

India is also bound to help Bhutan as part Bilateral security arrangement India has with Bhutan. According this is arrangement the said countries would help each other whenever is a risk to each other's sovereignty.

Whats are stake for China?

China has nothing to lose if a war doesn't break out. If India backs off acceding the territory to China then China stands to gain a lot in this standoff. However, if India continues to hold on to its position and becomes reluctant. Then China has to think on multiple fronts before going offensive on India as China is currently in crosshair in international Diplomacy as it is dealing with the North Korean crisis and south china sea dispute.

China, being a mature nation and huge economy which has off late slowed down would not risk of getting cornered internationally.

Alone in life!

Life looks a lonely place at times when you have deal with all the hurdles yourselves without a family around you. Instead you are the support pillar on whom the entire relies on.

Holding a moment of extreme emotion wil save the day any time.

I am tired! Yes I am tired of emotions and thoughts that look like a endless stream never subsiding or reaching a bigger picture.

Its exhausting to deal with mental, physical and emotional stress when all of them occur at the same time!!

yes at the same time!!

Good night!!

Emotions: Self control within oneself

Often in life we lose control for a very few nano seconds and repent for next few hours or worst rest of the life!!

Basis my experience I would love to give a piece of advise to everyone reading this post rite now..

• Hold onto your ego at all times
• Hold onto your anger and temper more often than not.
• Make a calculated response often.
• Give a certain % of wait to the opposite person's values while talking to them.
• Smile always!! Even if you are hurt or depressed or sad what-so-ever.

Have a great week ahead!!

Science: Sharpness inversely proportional to level of detail

Imagine if you are asked to sharpen a knife to the max.. How long would you do?
Until you feel it is sharp enough to cut anything soft or moderately hard with ease. rite?

Now imagine to zoom to 10000 times and stare at the sharpened edge of the knife!!

You barely see the knife edge as a threat as the edge looks very blunt at such zoom levels and thats the reason it is very difficult to cut anything to tiny even with the sharpest of weapons you find out there.

All of above was a quick thought which ran in mind while i was travelling to office in Metro Bangalore.

Strange it seems the idea but true it is on the ground!

This idea if applied to the scenarios we face in life. However sharp is the comment or however the sharp/big is the difficulty if you look through a magnifying glass it should not bother you. :)

Happy weekend! Have a blast.

The myth called - "Fear of God"

I have born in a Hindu family in India. I have seen, taught and made to believe in the "fear of God" mindset.

As as when I grew up and matured. Critical questions of 1. Why should I fear God? 2. Why did our ancestors seed this thought to there future generations started arising in me.

I am writing this arcticle to alienate some of logical reasoning on this mindset.

1. Why did our ancestors sees this thought?

• They firmly believed there needs to be something that acts as a control source to guide the wandering human mind so that doesn't indulge in activities which becomes a reason for its own destruction and how to achieve this? The answer is in the title of this arcticle.
• The chants why are they done? Few sounds of repeated would make sure the atmosphere/environment around would warm up and postive vibration is built this any negativity be it far or near will never affect the source.

Life is a very ruthless teacher

You need to have healthy balance between listening to your brain (logical decisions) versus heart (emotional triggers).

Ever wonder why do you face so many ups and downs in life despite tedious planning?

The answer is your Master "the life" itself is so ruthless that you just cannot make out something drastic is happening with you in very short span of time which is not accounted for in any of your planning.

What I have learnt is keep your options open while doing anything. Emotions do not have place here, be rock minded and yes you are ready to take on the surprises life has to offer you.

Being indifferent is the most difficult quality one can possess.

I would say it's a God's gift If you are able to overcome your emotional reactions. Over 90% of the people fail by handing over there decisions and actions to emotional triggers. You our need to have healthy balance between listening to your brain (logical decisions) versus heart (emotional triggers).

Short thoughts - moments of small activity

Human brain makes about trillion calculations per understanding/comprehension of a individual on an average

What would think when you are thinking the most basic things in life. I am talking about the absolutely basic stuff like drinking water, relieving yourself in restroom, wearing your clothes etc. These are moments you do your planning for the next hour or couple hours.

If this tiny space isn't utilised productively you end up being a loser, lazy etc

In life we always think of big things and huge plans to achieve these big things. But we always forget the importance of these small moments which makeup almost everything in our day.

Utilize these moments to plan something like completing some long pending personal stuff. Or play with you kid. Take a oath not think of office at home etc.

happy week guys!!

Maturity - Different scales for each individual

Maturity is the most difficult thing to understand to measure a person's thoughts

Everytime you speak to anyone you try to see were we stand and were the opposite person stands in terms of comprehension. This requires us to calculate or consider lot of things before conclusion, like knowing the background, environment and education he or she was bought up. Again the list goes on and on..

We try to do all the above to gauge the maturity level and hence decide whether he or she will get along well with us in he course of conversation to follow.

Maturity is unique and is very subjective most of the cases. A social maturity supersedes all the other types of maturity. A person mature in dealing with accounts or money may not be that good in handling relationships. But a person who is mature enough to handle all social circumstances can still give it a shot in handling accounts or relationships, though not 100 % perfect but rest assured that this person will not make blunders.

So be mature and comprehensive enough to handle all tough scenarios in life. Social maturity is very important guys..

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