Art to self control

When people try to harm your mood. They use many methods to do it. Their anger 💢 is nothing but difference in status of your and there mind.

If you are able to pause for moment when you are in a midst of an attack. I promise you will see things which can only be seen through extreme mind control.

The key here is let go everything including self respect (though in actuality there would be no harm done to your self respect).

It's the constant defence that mind tries to exhibit. The extent of defence will define a persona.

My advice is to avoid outbursting. I know its not an easy thing but you will achieve it. If you start this practice from today. You may save some good relationships.

Practice mindfulness and find calm.

Do you need money? And more of it.

Each and every moment you are breathing your struggle is to keep your stomach filled but that has changed significantly and we struggle to satisfy our luxury.

Earlier it was one man working in the family and the family is served for living.

Later it turned out that just serving is not enough we need to have own home new clothes etc.

Now apart from the basic and semi luxury commitments above we are hunger or having top quality entertainment. Best in class beauty accessories. And to top it all the envy of other family members when a close relative or neighbor is enhancing his or her life. That adds on to the pressure on lead male in the family to match his status to the so called social status of the neighbor and so on. This pressure comes in the form of..... You guessed it..!

He has to do two jobs!

I will stop here and pray mankind stops here and returns to normalcy ditching these kind of trends and be for humble aspiring their needs rather greeds

Have a happy weekend. What others think of you is non of your business.

What is hard work?

Today I finished a massive project at my workplace which was running since last eight months or so it was a very tough journey where in we just had two times have sleepless nights.

But then what makes it all fruitful is the culmination of it when you see whatever hard work you have put in last eight months had made sure a better output for your organisation you would obviously make sure that you will be much more enthusiastic about your next assignment

Other end of the day what matters is not the destination it's all about the journey I read couple of good lines today of Charlie Chaplin where he says it's what matters in life at the end of the day is how you spent life rather than how you left the world. He says each day you didn't laugh is a wasted day in your life which I completely agree with him.

Off late I feel no infatuation Or love of having money with me it doesn't make any difference as long as I am earning enough to feed myself the end of the day have lost that craze for money I don't know if this is something good or bad.

But I feel this makes me much more relieved of the Worldly pleasures that people crave for at least. I don't have to be jealous of someone who is having something more than what I don't have for example I have iPhone 4s which is completely shattered on the face of it but I don't feel like buying any new phone as such because I don't see a need for it. I hope this feeling of mine within myself gives me a better self satisfaction and helps me control my emotions .

Omens of life and Stable mind

You are surrounded with lot challenges and riddles God has made sure they are around you.

A stable mind which is free of any provocation, difference is opinion, change in mood, conflicts, comics, daily wear and tears is the most stable mind.

When you are insulted and you smile with absolutely zero change in brain wave pattern confirms you are truly stable.

Yes its its very difficult to stay or keep your mind calm. But once you master this you are on a sure path to enlightenment and you will be free of worldly pleasures and greeds including wealth.

Instead you feel like smiling on others who are desperate to hurt you but unable to due to a rock solid stable mind you have.

Never entertain a provocation and feed your mind with anger and desperation which will result in skating up the molecules of a settled environment around you thus reducing the positive cover you have around you!

Good night. Sweet dreams.

Mental chaos

Mind is in total chaos. There is lot of thought noise. Everything is very blurry thought. Thinking and decision making are very unclear. Phenomenon looks unending and infinite.

Feels like the path is closed and life is heading for a disaster. No amount of hardwork looks like helping the cause.

Criticism is the order of the day and no escaping it. Need a spiritual time off. Need mental peace. Need to some positivity flowing. Need some support. Need some cheerful things to happen. Blankness occupies apart from thought chaos.

God bless me.

Tips for preparing to travel safely

All of us like to travel. But most of us lack the idea of preparation. If you are a occasional traveler. Then you might want to go through some of the below pointers.

Plan you travel at least 3 months in advance if the travel is for a week duration.

Prioritize essentials and list them down which would be taken along with you.Medicines, fall-back food items like chocolates, torch, basic clothing and foot wear. Any other packing can happen on top of these.

Do some homework on the place you are visiting the weather conditions, what is popular buy there and which are the good travel spots you can visit there. But do not limit your choices to only these.

Organize your itinerary. Know your exact period of travel at least 2 months prior to the date and book your tickets/car/hotel stay accordingly.

Confirm and make sure that all the bookings are in place. Read and understand the terms and conditions thoroughly as you do not want to be in surprise once you reach.

Share your contact with your dear ones and let them know of your travel plan clearly in advance.

Hope that was helpful.

How to quit smoking?

Smoking is that habit which begins as a style. Then turns into a "break-time" filler where in you use it for striking a conversation, social networking etc.

Further it becomes a stress reliever of sorts. This phase is most dangerous when you have lost the "pleasure" smoking use to give you when you began the journey.

Finally, its a stage when you are addicted to smoking so much so that you are not able to live without a puff in the air for more than couple of hours. Some simple steps if your heart is saying you need to quit smoking.

1. Reduce the amount of money you carry as cash in your wallet. Meaning do not have too much free cash. Progressively get it to zero.

2. Body fitness regime is one good way to divert mind's attention and helps in stabilizing and making mind more stronger for the cause called "quit smoking"

3. Do not purchase cigarettes in bulk ever. Its always one at a time.

4. Smoke only when you want to and not when your colleague/friend wants to.

5. Try alternatives to pacify your body's nicotine needs like Nicotine bubble gum, Electronic cigarette etc.

6. Practice meditation/yoga. There are a whole of websites which talk about mindfulness, meditation and yoga

7. Have a strong mind and determination with a single goal to quit smoking. Spend more time with people who talk positives and discourage smoking.

8. Use alternate relieving measures apart from above mentioned like coffee, tea which are less harmful and more health advantageous

Some resources:
Nine ways to quit smoking
Life expectancy issues due to smoking 

What is Anxiety?

Anxiety is a status of mind when we expect something to happen, be it negative or positive.

More often than not Anxiety is associated with negative things. Like Anxiety is part of a branch which treats mental illness.

When we are anxious we press the panic button disrupting the result of an event/action.

Like anger management, anxiety management should be part of training/personality improvement training regimes.

If a 10% patience is added to the anxiety you would achieve what is called a steady state helping you take right decisions and important times in life.

Too much of patience if added to the anxious situation leads to disinterest leaving a odd in the lot. Extreme patience either signifies you have 100% control on your mind or there is some serious disorder with yourself.

Happy day ahead guys!

How to be happy always?

It's actually pretty simple. You just need to mind your business and do not care of others opinion about you.

When you do this. You have made sure half of the junk thoughts in your mind are out.

Secondly, need to have your senses in control. You do need to implement every other suggestion you are given. Also you do not need to please each and every person in life whom you encounter.

Anothet important key to happiness is learning to say "NO". If you are hesitant then you are crucified.

Anyways keep smiling always!

Have a nice day.

What to do when you have fever? Enjoy it

When the body temperature increases. It means there is a imbalance of temperature in various parts of body which being corrected and hence the body temperature.

You feel nausea, drowsiness, and head spin if you try and walk. How to counter it? Just do not keep thinking and feel great that you have got fever and you need to look after. Meaning you are a king of sorts. Atleast in India this is the way people think.

I once gave it a thought, how about enjoying this period of high body temperature. Because your brain is slowed down and you are able to recollect thoughts and work through it in a more organised manner rather than flipping opinions every moment.

Well that's my take on fever or high body temperature.

How to live a peaceful married life. Yes its possible

Yes, guys the header of this article seems very impossible but its possible.

Often the first couple of years in an arranged marriage looks relatively good enough and justifies your choice and decision. But post 24 months is whats marks the beginning of a never ending testing phase and you will be crucified in all aspects of life.

Some of the common reasons why both the husband and wife think they made a wrong choice for life partner.

1. Your ambitions/life goals are different. Hence priorities change and hence your basic daily routines would clash.
• Key: Ambitions/Life goals are things which have to be re-looked at based on phases in life. If you are single/bachelor then you would set ambitions basis your circumstances (I would call you are learning and not fully matured at this point). When circumstances change your would not realize to blend your partner's goals as well. Question yourself on this? How often you asked her/him what he wants to be in life and what are his/her interests in life.
2. You realized your mental frequency do not match. This is one of common reasoning I have heard. 
• Yes, you would need to re-tune your mind to hear him/her just life normal radio else both do not listen each other.
3. Age of getting into a commitment or getting married. 27 years, I would say is ideal given that you would have seen a bit of money flow in you life and you would have heard/seen few life lessons that help you carve a partner picture and hence you can make a informed choice while choosing your life partner.
4. Blending your needs with that of hers/his. You would need to be ready to make at-least 10% compromise on all the stuff you intend to do in life. From the very granular to the major decisions. This way each you respect one another and this helps create a strong bond overtime. Which would result in the minus 10% to become plus 10%.

Hope some of these helps.

Have a good Sunday whichever part of the world you are in!

Do you need money? And more of it.

Each and every moment you are breathing your struggle is to keep your stomach filled but that has changed significantly and we struggle to satisfy our luxury.

Earlier it was one man working in the family and the family is served for living.

Later it turned out that just serving is not enough we need to have own home new clothes etc.

Now apart from the basic and semi luxury commitments above we are hunger or having top quality entertainment. Best in class beauty accessories. And to top it all the envy of other family members when a close relative or neighbor is enhancing his or her life. That adds on to the pressure on lead male in the family to match his status to the so called social status of the neighbor and so on. This pressure comes in the form of..... You guessed it..!

He has to do two jobs!

I will stop here and pray mankind stops here and returns to normalcy ditching these kind of trends and be for humble aspiring their needs rather greeds

Have a happy weekend. What others think of you is non of your business.

Financial pressure in life

When you are completely debt ridden you like life is come to a stand still and attempt to do something which might hurt yourself.

Mind goes to a state where you feel things are unmanageable and lose is imminent. But if you hold onto your nerve and give it sometime . The time itself will heal all the hurdles you are facing now.

Yes you are criticising God . You hate orthodox methods. You feel like dying. You want to commit Suicide etc. But remember this is moment is time you are in this state.

You are bound to come out of this and drink lots of patience drink . Think slowly. Do not take any adverse decisions.

Good night guys...

Life is a difficult game

When you glance at your past and even though not fair compare against your curremt circumstances, it looks a very losing game that we r playing.

But the beauty of life is you know your winning only when you win. Not a second before the winning moment you know of this. It looks like you are in a constant battle and that is not always advantage yourself.

I would like to give one piece of advise to all of those who wants to call it a day and quit life. You are having a golden game of opportunity given to you by the supreme power. Make use of it, enjoy the difficult portions of it instead of cursing it. Live life every moment to the fullest. Life is not complete when you have the best luxury and satisfaction but when you see more colors that it has to offer in terms of emotions, cycled through the entire lifecycle of rich-poor-rich. Being rich is having satisfied mind with satisfied people around you.